In Massachusetts, custody refers to the rights and responsibilities parents have toward their children after a divorce or separation. Child custody is divided into two categories: legal custody and physical custody. Legal custody determines who makes important decisions about a child’s education, health care, religion, and overall development. Physical custody determines where the child lives and how parenting time works.
In most custody cases, parents share legal custody. Courts generally support joint decision-making so both parents remain involved in important choices affecting their child’s life.
Custody can take different forms:
Interstate custody issues may also arise when parents live in different states or plan to relocate. These cases involve additional legal rules and court approval.
Legal custody and physical custody serve different purposes. Legal custody focuses on who makes important decisions in a child’s life, such as education and medical care.
Physical custody determines where the child lives and how parenting time works.
Many parents share legal custody even when one parent has primary physical custody. The court may order different arrangements depending on what works best for the child and the family’s situation.
Courts may grant sole legal custody when parents cannot communicate or make decisions together. Courts may also order it when one parent is not able to safely make decisions for the child.
This type of custody is more common in high-conflict cases involving abuse, neglect, or restraining orders. A parent with sole legal custody can make major decisions for the child without approval from the other parent.
A parent with sole legal custody still cannot permanently move a child out of Massachusetts without permission.
Yes. Custody orders are not always permanent. A parent may ask the court to modify custody if there has been a significant change in circumstances.
Examples include changes in a parent’s living situation, concerns about safety, or ongoing communication problems. The court will review any requested change using the same standard: what best serves the child.
Courts make custody decisions based on the best interests of the child.
Judges do not rely on accusations made by one parent alone. Instead, the court relies on evidence. This includes each parent’s caregiving history and any pattern of substance abuse, violence, or neglect.
Parents who do not get along may still share custody. Conflict between parents, by itself, is not enough to remove joint custody. The court reviews all relevant information before making a decision.
To ask for sole legal custody or sole physical custody, a parent must show that shared custody would be harmful to the child. The court needs proof, not opinions.
Proof can include records of substance abuse, past violence, or other behavior that puts the child at risk. Judges make custody decisions based on the facts of the case and what best protects the child.
Parents seeking to limit custody or visitation must support their request with documents and honest testimony.
Massachusetts family courts review custody cases carefully and do not rely on assumptions. Judges review how each parent cares for the child on a day-to-day basis and meets the child’s needs.
The court may also consider the child’s routine, school schedule, and stability. In some cases, the court may appoint professionals to help evaluate what custody arrangement best supports the child.
Many custody cases include a parenting plan. A parenting plan sets out parenting time, decision-making, and how parents will communicate with each other.
Courts often encourage parents to create a parenting plan together when possible. A clear plan can reduce conflict and help parents avoid future disputes.
Custody decisions affect a child’s daily life, stability, and long-term well-being. Understanding how Massachusetts courts approach custody can help parents make informed choices during a difficult time.
Wright Family Law Group works with parents to evaluate custody options, understand court expectations, and plan next steps. Schedule a free 15-minute discovery call to discuss your situation and learn what custody laws may mean for you.

